New Year...

2010's first day looks great from the begining. which is a bigger and imagination thati picture for the rest of the year. Sometimes, it is true that hoping a new plan in a new year is a graet thing to do. However, whishing and planing a new plan without applying anything does not make change. Making a mistake in the past years or decades should be a my source or my reference point so that i can develope one great thing for the rest of the year...

This will be a challanging and well pland year. The action will be upto my mind.

interesting...

I never tought that i will spent some good first Christmas time with my American family. It was a great expiriance and love that i ever recived from a great family.
Whenever different people come in to the mall for Christmas shoping, u never known that it was a culture. I just felt, that it was some kind of rules that u foolow every year, which is you have to spent what yourked troughout the year.

...No Love, but just .......first.kiss....ha....???????

How Important is the New Year’s Kiss to a Man in a Relationship? user
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How momentous is the New Year’s Eve kiss to you? Do you consider The New Year’s kiss to be pivotal? Do you have a first kiss holiday story? Have you had a quintessential kiss that was unforgettable? Do you have a bad kiss story, under the mistletoe story, or a New Year’s Eve kiss story? Do you have a horror story about your first kiss? Do you remember the emplacement and time that you had the best kiss of your life?

According to deep-rooted tradition, any two people who are standing under the mistletoe are obliged to kiss. This old custom may very well be Scandinavian. All the same, we have honored the ritual over the years. The holidays do not have to be so bad. Hang up a sprig of mistletoe. In addition, when your significant other walks underneath, go for it!

How important is the New Year’s kiss to a man? How important is it to women in a relationship? Have you ever been caught in an unpunctual Mistletoe moment with someone other that your significant other? Is a kiss underneath the Mistletoe as exciting as that New Year’s kiss?

Ladies, how important is the New Year’s kiss to the man in your life?

Gentlemen, Do you care about that New Year’s Eve kiss?




Where is the most romantic place to kiss?

　
◘ Beach

◘ Parking in the car

◘ On the top of a Ferris wheel

◘ Under the Stars

◘ Under the Mistletoe

◘ Other ( please specify )


What makes a person a good kisser?

　
◘ Soft lips

◘ Light tongue movement

◘ Gentle pressure

◘ Firm pressure

◘ Other ( specify )　

　
What is best kind of kiss?


◘ Short and sweet

◘ Sexy, long and fun

◘ Romantic, soft and sweet

◘ The first kiss

◘ Under the Mistletoe Kiss

◘ New Year’s Eve Kiss

◘ Other ( specify )


Who should initiate the first kiss?


◘ The girl

◘ The guy

◘ It does not matter

Is there a word more than Thank You???????

I finally Breathed with out stress and slept full 8hr. I was completly messed up with one of my class. But, I ended up getting a "B". That is God's promiss. He just letting me know that every day He is keeping His promisses and His words.

Did I Keep my words For Him?
Please Father help me To keep Your words and Use them and follow them in my whole entire life.

Thank you....God!!!!!!!!!!!

short of word...

Oh God, today i am so tired and very exosted. last night i was feeling i was gonna have fun @ the Nuc med dept. but rather i haven't had a good day becouse of one crazy retarded lady. Any how, I am almost done i hope i will make it trough if and only if He said so.

God bless.

The Yankee...

It has been almost a year. I think I do remember the season. Yes! It was Thanksgiving week. It is true that it is a specially holyday for all human beings, especially for couples who really love each other and thank full of God.
I was working at Starbucks, making all different kinds of drinks for different people. It was really a busy week of the year; since peoples were buying staff. Some of them were happy, some of them were sad about the economy and others were looked like don't have any feeling about the holyday that is coming for.

There was one thing that touches my heart. Two couples were really happy; when they were ordering the drinks. They were laughing, talking, smiling and seeing each other’s eyes. I can imagine and tell that, they weren’t thinking about anybody else. Not even their families or friends or work. They were just thinking and talking about themselves.

So, I ask them what makes them happy all the time. The answer was really surprised me. They answered the same answer for each other at the same time for each other. The guy said "HER" and the girl said "HIM". And I was really impressed and was very intimate about the answer. How u can answer the same answer at the same time in a second? I couldn't find a better reason for myself.

But finally, I came up with one conclusion.
When God create Adam, He creates Eden for Adam to make Adam Happy all the time and vice versa. At the same Time both Adam and Eden were making Their Holly Father God Happy.
It was and is all about LOVE. He is the one who give us all those gifts for all of us because, he is LOVE.
So those couples' answer was depending on the fact that "LOVING OTHERS BEYOND THEMSELVES". It was about feeling each other and making happy one over the other.

So, I felt so happy and wish them a great life and tide up my thinking about them. However, I didn't tide mine. It is still thinking or a journey. But, on the same day I did something crazy that I usually never did before and did realized later about what I did.

I was on my half hour lunch break. I wasn't feeling hungry. So, I decided to walk around and get something FOR THE HOLYDAY. Finally I ended up walking in to Yankee candle store. Since I love candle, I decided to buy a candle. Of course; if the price is favorable.

When i was walking around in the store to get what I was looking for, one pretty, blond white girl came up to me and asked her help. I didn't hesitate to say yes. So, she asked me what kind of candle I was looking for. I have no idea where and how this idea came up, but I told her I need one really good candle for my female best friend for the holyday. Even if I have a lot of good friends, I have no idea for which one I was buying for. She asked me about what kind of candle "my friend" likes. Since I didn't know what kind of candle she (my friend) likes, I let her to choose her favorite candle. She chooses one and it was $35.00 with thanks giving card. Finally, she gave it to the register person and walked away to the break room. After the women that works on the register charged me and roped everything properly, I asked the other's employee’s (pretty blond girl) name and she told me her name is Emmalee. I asked her permission and a huge favor to give the whole raped candle gift for Emmalee. even if she was a kind of surprised by the decision that i make, she walked to her and gave the gift right after I walked out from the Candle store and came back to work. Since Yankee and Starbucks stores at the Charleston Town Center Mall are one faces toward the other, we start looking each other (only eye contact) and didn't say even a word. Finally after a week, she disappeared and never seen her for the entire year.

Now it has been a year. I haven't seen her for a year. It is crazy. Last week I was walking in the same store at the same Holyday season to get something for myself. I was surprised seeing her and kind of laughed about what I did and told to one of my best married friend.

Now what is or will be next?????????
It will be a question for most of us.
To be continued....

what do say about this????

In that first month of dating, even the coolest guy can only play it so cool. If he's serious, he'll drop hints.
It's hard to remember the simple things that indicate he is serious about you when you're being courted, especially when his game is intoxicating, and he's saying "all the right things." So keep in mind, seriousness should not be measured by:
- The amount of money he's spending on you
- The grandeur of dates
- The frequency of dates
- The nice things he says

10 First Date Mistakes
What the Guys I Date Don't Know
During the fledgling weeks of dating, if he's doing any of the following, there's a chance that he's serious:

#1. He Calls/Texts at the Right Time
It's good when a guy texts/calls any time, any day. And subject matter should range from date ideas to insignificant things like the fact that he found a $10 bill on the sidewalk on the way to work.
#2. He Wants to See You... a Lot
I'll try to see a girl as often as I can when I'm into her. Even though I'm a certified expert in the art of laziness, I overcome my desire to sleep or do nothing in those critical early moments of the relationship. My priorities change from Ramen, Wikipedia, and TV to wine bars, walks, and dinners.
#3. You Pass the Distance Test
It seems this always happens: You meet someone you like, you hang out for a few weeks, and then a holiday or business trip interrupts. So, instead of riding the momentum of the sparks, you must brave that week apart. Will things be the same afterwards? Will you communicate?

If I'm into a girl, time away intensifies my desire to communicate
If I'm into a girl, time away intensifies my desire to communicate and I anticipate seeing her again -- and I definitely contact her while we are apart. If I'm not into her, she is easily dismissed from my thoughts when we are apart.
#4. You Stack Up Against the Things He Loves to Do
I never thought I'd see the day when guys in our Ravens football watching group would not only show up with a girl, but they'd also miss some of the game because of morning brunch. Yikes! But that's exactly what one of my friends is doing now. I would struggle to sacrifice Ravens time, but when I'm into a girl, she is on the same plane as the things I'm passionate about.
#5. He Finds a Way to Make Time for You
Some people love work, but I would be discouraged if someone worked instead of spending time with me in the first few weeks of a relationship. Even when work needs to be done, I'll find a way to get it done and see the girl. When I'm not into her, I might use the work as an excuse to avoid her.
#6. You See His Other Side
I'm a goofball. People wonder how I'll ever meet someone. They don't understand that the right girl will see the other side of me: serious, behaved, deep, thoughtful, and respectful. When I'm into a girl, I never say anything obnoxious in front of her... at least until I know she likes me. When I'm not into a girl, I'll just act like an idiot with my friends -- almost as if she isn't there.
#7. You Have Down Time Together
If I'm into her, the time we spend just hanging out is the best -- I imagine sun-drenched mornings lying in bed, making breakfast, enjoying "Saved by The Bell" episodes together, and other low-key moments. But if I'm not into a girl, I'll leave her place, or "encourage" her to leave my place instead of hanging out.
Unfortunately, some guys can pull off all of the above without being serious. But usually, a guy who is not serious will not put forth so much effort. Sometimes, in our zeal to find companionship, we forget the simple things, and we convince ourselves that, even though we aren't getting much of someone's time, they are into us. We deserve a relationship with mutual effort that is not simply being used as a means to an end. It's simply about enjoying each other's company.